well fiur if hes like me, and shes the woman of his dreams he wont take no no matter what and just keep trying ;D

for me i was too nervous to be outright so i tried to beat around the bush cause it gave me chances to be around the girl i like, otherwise i wouldnt have.

but thats just me and every1 knows im weird :p

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"all men die, and no brave man lets death frighten him from his desires"

My fiance is a lady's man. He is 22 and I am 28, so the age thing isn't really all that important imo. He can get most girls to do what he wants, when he wants...except for me, of course, that's how I keep him in line, I keep him challenged, I guess. We are both insanely huge flirts and we have contests to see who can get the most phone #'s when we go out together. He has a ton of confidence and is extremely forward. He's very cocky and tends to be an asshole to most people...but for some reason he has these dumb twit girls falling all over themselves around him (yes, I guess I would be one of them. haha!) So yeah, basically, just be an arrogant asshole and she'll be putty in your hands.

You know? See? This is what i've been discovering as of late. It's like a woman's kryptonite. I swear, i'm not into short haired girls but 9 out of the 10 times that i have been stalked or hit on by a girl, she's had hair that hasnt passed her chin.

It may seem strange at first but I really think i'm on to something....

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all depends on what's right for you I guess. I'll let you guys in on a little secret since I'm afraid to post in the confessional thread.. I actually tried out eharmony.com for a month (not just the free signup because they don't give you any matches that way, just a personality evaluation) but actually spent the 50-60 bucks or whatever to try it out for a month, and what's funny is that based on the criteria I entered (as honestly as possible) the only matches I was getting were black chicks in the south and midwest areas...

Now, I should mention that "my type" is stereotypicaly chicks like Iolanthe or what I imagine Iolanthe to look like irl: a buck nothing, five nothing, real easy on the eyes, and a snobby indie rock chick who's full of herself cuz she's got half a brain and maybe has some interesting hobbies and/or knows a thing or 2 about music and fashion.

However, I'd bet you dollars to doughnuts that if I ended up with a chick like Io, or even found myself in pursuit of a girl like her I'd be downright and utterly miserable. Hell, I have pursued a girl like that, and we need not be reminded of all the threads that situation spurned

What's funny is now I have Shaliza who makes me ridiculously happy, whom I would marry Tomorrow if given the opportunity, and who ironically is black and originally from the south. Makes me think that maybe eharmony knew something I didn't.

The moral of the story is that you really shouldn't waste time chasing anyone and instead set your sites on meeting someone who will just "feel right". Think about it, in the long run... do you wanna end up with someone where you have to pretend to be something you're not all the time, or someone who's going to love you for who you really are?

and now that I've played the sweet card, I'm going to give you the real ultra secret player's advice that no other player wants to share so you don't step on their game:

[spoiler]The best thing a guy can do while he's single and working on himself to eventually be "equal" enough for the high standard chick is to find some random chick (or chicks) who he has no interest in and fuck them as much as he can. This is to avoid the dreaded "pussy on a pedestal" syndrome that mg so obviously suffers from. Moreover, a girl just tends to think "What's wrong with this guy?" if you're not already sleeping with someone. If you pick up on that vibe and get all insecure you may as well just bow out courteously at that moment, cuz you're done.[/spoiler]

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I should just add, that Shaliza is incredibly smart and talented, dope as hell, has amazing taste, and actually works in the music industry. I wanted to clarify in case my previous post made it seem like she wasn't my usual type. I just meant the difference in personalities...

[spoiler]Furthermore, I should also add to my spoiler that if you're a genuinely nice guy and hope to meet a genuinely nice girl and don't really want to go out and bang girls you're unattracted to, you should at least find a few who want to and hang out with them a lot. for 1, it's a confidence booster, and for 2, you're still putting out that vibe like you can get ass if you wanted it and don't "need" it from anyone specifically. This actually works out for your benefit in the event you actually meet a nice girl because then it shows you have some integrity and morals.[/spoiler]

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I've found that "trying" to get girls is the wrong way to approach it. Just be yourself, be comfortable. The way I found my girlfriend/probably future wife, is when I wasn't looking for a girl. Any girl I "look for" is fucking retarded.

And any girl I need to be mean to or act like an asshole in front of isn't worth my time, and shouldn't be worth any of yours either. Let those girls get with fucky guys, see how happy they are 5 years down the road.

Way to insult Iolanthe bruddah

yeah well, that's the way it goes sometimes. I don't think she was saying he was an asshole, though.

What the fuck. You guys are being way too mushy. Deejay, that girl knew from the moment she walked out of the elevator if she'd go out with you. She's either waiting for you to ask her out or dreading you asking her out. Either way, you'll never know until you ask.

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I met a girl in May at a friend's birthday party. We've been talking and hanging out randomly since then, and I really like her. I called into work last Friday because we were up talking till 6AM in my driveway Thursday. I brought her to Flagstaff with me and my friends last weekend, and she rode up with me. I haven't attempted a SINGLE move on her, nor has she on me. She gives me mixed signals and I can't figure out what she wants.

Last night I figured it's now or never...so I asked her on a "date" (for next week). She got all excited! She wants to go tonight but I can't because I'm going out of town lol! Anyways just thought I would share something good from my singlesince2004 life. I am excited to see what happens.

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Good Luck Klu. Don't fuck up

lol Kluya stuff like that is actually pretty interesting.

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COBRA KAI DOJO NEVER DIES
RIP Shiloh

i aint after her for teh sex D:< i really just want to be with here. if i wanted a girl just for the sex ill redial those girls who called me back in may who wanted to come "shower" with me and have sex with me. (i turned them down)

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"all men die, and no brave man lets death frighten him from his desires"

hell ya man ur a p-i-m-p

I would have said to punch her in the stomach and gauge her response but yeah I suppose asking her out works too.

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Thanks guys I'll try not to screw it up. Just gonna take things very slow. I'll mention what happens later down the road.

And Dead, that's more of a last resort for me.

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Just remember to take it out, girls love that.

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I'm just a question knowing my answer,
hope I'm wrong.

Don't wave it around in the air though. Just a simple hello from the trouser snake. Helllooooo.

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Dont forget to give it a "Penis Voice", chicks dig a great sounding penis voice.

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COBRA KAI DOJO NEVER DIES
RIP Shiloh

Alabama man is a ladies man so take that advice to heart, unless she's not trailer park trash do this and she's yours Deejay.

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that's actually funny you guys say that cuz me and my best friend Dev had a conversation about that not too long ago. About how he and I are kinda shy and respectful, and thus, when we get a chick back to our house, we usually take our sweet-ass time making the first move. We imagine the chicks sitting there nodding their head absently at our boring conversation thinking to themselves "Jesus Christ! I wish this guy would stfu and just whip his dick out already"

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I had an ex who told me a great story about some creepy guy who talked her into getting into a hot tub with her (at his house). She did only to shut him up and like 5 seconds after she gets in she realizes that hes not wearing anything. Its a funny story lol, but there are guys who do just flop it out whenever. She had it happen twice that she told me and both times she said it was with guys who thought their shit didnt stink.

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COBRA KAI DOJO NEVER DIES
RIP Shiloh

lol i heard of something like that happening near my area except the girl actually cut his dick off hahahahaha and klu just a bit of advice, its good to take it slow but remember not too slow. You have to be on the ball that night and guage the situation. i usually have this system. If i see her give 3 obvious signs i go for the kill. anything more is a bonus. if less then that like 1-2 then i think it over and see if its worth it. if not even 1 obvious sign then i say fuck it hahaha. But its very important that you give her at least 1 drink. Girls losen up when they have a bit of alc in them and they tend to be much much more flirty and open. i would recommend an amareto sour. pretty decent alc content and tastes great. as far as this is concerned, i wish you the very best of luck and be sharp!
keep us updated.

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Small update:

So I still havent bumped into that girl from the elevator yet..

But!

My friend who is dating this mucho caliente spanish girl told me that her single cousin was going to be available this weekend. So we all decided to go to Rapids waterpark together and had a lot of fun. At first, I was all shy and nerdy and didnt really talk. One of my other friends decided to tag along at the last second when it was supposed to be me, my bestfriend, his gf, and her cousin. (so our double date turned into a boy-band.)

Anyways, my friend was hitting on the girl the WHOLE time we were there, and I was starting to get really ticked off because everytime I said something funny, he would have to add on to the joke. I felt like I was on an MTV dating show and we were fighting for her attention. Finally, in the car ride home she told me that she thought I was really funny/cute and she thuoght that my friend was kind of annoying.

Thats when I finally grew a pair and asked if she wanted to hang out together sometime... she said yes and we exchanged numbers!

I know my typing is all over the place but thx guys ur good listeners.

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Lately, I usually have sex with girls and don't talk to them again. I'm not a relationship type of person these past couple of years, but I'm trying to change that.

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