lol, that was Jeremy (my fiance) before he met me.



And guys, I told you that he isn't an ass to me...just to everyone else. lol
I wouldn't waste my time with someone who didn't respect me. I do have slightly more self respect than that.
When he initially met me he thought I was another dumbass hot chick to fuck around with because by being an ass like he is, he, generally, attracts those kind of girls. He quickly realized I have a brain and can actually hold a worthwhile, intelligent conversation...imagine that!

let me sum it up. Chicks are attention whores. If you ignore them or are mean to them they crave your attention. If you are nice to them, they got what they wanted, so you are not interesting.

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Women want a "project" to work on. They would rather go out with an asshole and try to make him into a nice guy, then actually go out with a nice guy from the start.

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This is true and so is what MM said. My second gf was more about this and she wanted me off to be off drugs, stop hanging out with some of my friends and not listen to metal as much lol. She wasn't a Christian either or particularly religious. The timing is that at month 3 or so I had started my first cocaine binge. No way anyone was going to get me to stop doing drugs at that time. Obviously it didn't work out and it was mutual haha. It got really annoying and I didn't love her.

Being a dick works and ignoring and/or paying as little attention to a female as possible works. Being a total asshole for me is not natural, I can ignore people and be anti social easily though. I am very shy in person to a point I have been told I am seen as stuck up before getting to know me. Women want guys to be confident though.

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WOW. Ok this girl (the one I mentioned earlier in this thread) and I had a "date" set for tonight, and I've been excited about it all week. She's been acting sorta flaky lately but was still up for the date. I had everything figured out for tonight.

I just sent her a text message and asked when she wanted to meet. She responded saying she would like to meet halfway, because she is staying the night at her boyfriend's house tonight. wtf!!!!??? I feel so fucking stupid and angry. I don't even know what to say.

A couple minutes ago she sent me a text asking if we are still on. Fuck that. I'm not even going to respond. Anybody wanna get drunk tonight? haha.

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Oh big deal, shes got a boyfriend. If shes half the girl you build her up to be I would have assumed she probably did lol. If she didnt there's probably a reason.

Shes not married, shes not engaged, so who cares. Its not like youre cheating on your girlfriend lol.

I say go anyway, whats the worst thats going to happen? Your going to ruin her relationship? lol shes the turd that put you in this situation.

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well said yarr...i like to have what is called an unspoken agreement. if she is talking to you behind her bf`s back and is going out on dates, she is obviously unhappy. BAM time to capitolize dude. girls are easyest when they are vulnerable or in a bad relationship, the shield is down. if you want anything out of this i do not suggest you curl into a ball and just give up. go out, flirt but not to much and play your cards well. im almost 100% sure that will end in another date or sex hahaha keep up posted man! good luck

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Just dont ever thinking about wife'ing her and I say ALL SYSTEMS GO.

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I'm still up, but last call is in like an hour. DRUNK!!

sorry to hear that Kluya

God I sounded like a whiney bitch in my last post. I'm over it already. We didn't end up going btw because she made other plans and flaked on me lol.

I'm going to a pool party on Saturday at a Marine friend's house, and there is going to be lots of single girls there. It's on!

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pump em and dump em klu

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I've been doing 1 night stands for a long time. I'm good at that lol.

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I say bust a nut right in her eye so her eyelids get sticky and she has problems opening her eyes. Then tell her she is special.

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