Milamber wrote:
...but I believe that something is not alive until it has a heartbeat (which, for a fetus is about 6-8 weeks into pregnancy). Embryonic cells are acquired during the first few days to a week after fertilization....
Mythrandir wrote:
...I believe that as soon as the egg is fertalized and the genetic information becomes different from the mother that it is a new life. Once that life comes into existance no one has the right to end it. Now I do believe that if the woman was raped or her life is in danger that abortion can be considered a viable option. Other than that, she choose to have sex and therefore she gets to live with the result. Mind you the man also has to live with the result to as dead-beat dads are one of the lowest forms of life....
Well. Here's where all the opinions are going to vary, it starts with the question of "When does life actually begin?" Personally, I agree with Mythrandir. My wife and I were trying to have a child, and from then on it was our son, not any kind of added appendix of her body. Regardless whether he had a heartbeat, he was my son, and was "part of the family."
I'm not a religious person, by any means, in terms of going to church, etc. so we'll leave that part out of the argument--I'm not sure that even should have a place in this discussion. After all, I could go to church with the same 15+ people every Sunday and/or Wednesday, and we could all have differing opinions on this subject.
Back to the topic at hand, I do believe abortion can be an option, as said before, in the case of a rape victim or the possibility of harm or death to the mother. Our pregnancy was a difficult one, and we did have problems, up to thinking the baby would have to be delivered more than a month pre-term due to complications with the pregnancy. I would have been crushed at losing my son, but if his delivery meant my wife might die, I don't think I could go through with it.
That, however, is different than some 16 year old girl going out and partying, having a good time, and .. "Oops, I missed my period this month... and the test is positive." Sorry. Stupid mistake, learn from it. I don't want to sound like an ass, but really.... You can't tell me you didn't know it would happen. If you aren't willing to deal with the possibility of having a child, why are you going through the process of creation of said child? That's stupid. And you're going to kill that child, who's now probably near the 6-8 weeks when it acquires it's heartbeat because said teenager is too stupid to even take the test or let anyone know until the second month (in a lot of cases).
I don't know a LOT about the stem cell research, so I won't pretend to know. But from Milamber's post, I'd imagine most of the abortions are long after the first couple weeks of fertilization. And most of these are just to kill the child because you can't handle the consequences of your actions. I just don't think that's a solve-everything, remove-all-guilt-and-responsibility kind of thing. In a bad situation, rape--the pregnancy not being your fault, nor a result of your intentions--or a situation where you or the baby can't live due to some complication, ok, I can see that being reasonable. But otherwise, you had sex, you got pregnant, and you can't deal with your situation, so you find the easy way out....
Just like you can't run from your situation if you accidentally shot someone--you can't put the bullet back in the gun and pretend it never happened--why should you not have to deal with the consequences?
Side note: I know about dead-beat fathers. I have a step-daughter, from my wife's first marriage. We have a hard time financially due to child care issues, but if he would pay his portion of child support like he's supposed to, we'd be fine. Nice situation, huh?
(I don't know how bad this post really is, I'm at work and got interrupted 10-20 times in the process of typing... But the sum of things, I agree with Mythrandir so far on pretty much all points...)
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